Tuesday, April 23, 2013

BHD's Musings: Memories From More Retired Boots

BHD's Musings: Memories From More Retired Boots: You are seeing the heel of a Corcoran Field Boot. I decided to put these boots on with a pair of tactical police pants last week to see how...

Saturday, April 20, 2013

On Homosexuality versus Gay Identity

This article popped up on FB recently and it basically sums up what I've been saying for years. 
I'd rather be limited to Homosexual or Homophile that have the Gay identity and all its preconceived ideals, ideas & perceptions etc thrust upon my identity. I reject the notion of Gay. I am not gay or a gay, I am however a homosexual homophile.

On Homosexuality versus Gay Identity

by The Men's Club (Notes) on Monday, April 1, 2013 at 8:21am
Homosexual is a purely objective description.
Gay is a label of social identity.
Contrary to popular misconception in modern Western society, the two terms do not mean the same thing.

Homosexuality is the physical -and emotional- attraction to one's own gender. A man may be solely attracted to other men, which makes him strictly homosexual. However, it is very normal for a man who is attracted to the opposite sex to also have homosexual desires.
The term homosexuality is a bit limiting in this sense, because it focuses specifically on sexualattraction or behaviour. Most men, in every culture throughout history, have been predominantlyhomosocial, as the socialization with other men is necessary for a young male to learn the social norms and skills that are appropriate to male identity in any given society. The deep bonds that develop between men in their socialization are often homophile in nature, denoting love between members of the same gender, without necessarily referring to any sexual attraction or behaviour.
In many societies, those institutions deemed most masculine in nature -such as those of the hunter and the warrior or soldier- are those in which men spend nearly all their time socializing uniquely with members of the same sex. It is precisely in these most 'manly' of institutions that homophile relations between men are -or were- most common. This love between men is not necessarily, but may be, of a homosexual nature as well, but one cannot say in all of these cases that the individuals are necessarily strictly homosexual.
Notably among the soldiers of ancient Greece and Rome, it was perfectly normal for men to have amorous relationships with other men, many of whom also had wives at home. Both Alexander the Great and the Roman emperor Hadrian had a wife as well as a male lover. The love between two men was perceived as being of an entirely different nature than the relationship one had with one's wife. In fact, the love for a man was often held to be exalted above heterosexual love, and at the very least certainly never emasculating.

In ancient Greek and Roman society, as well as in many other great civilizations, the accepted social norm for sexual activity by men, was that a man assume a dominant sexual role. Assuming a passive position in sex, ie. allowing one's self to be penetrated, was considered emasculating. Hence, we can safely assume that any sexual activity between male lovers of equal standing would have entailed physical intimacy without either individual assuming a passive role.

The only similarity between ancient Greek or Roman male lovers and gay men in contemporary Western society, is that they are both attracted to men.
The term gay -in its most common modern usage- is not just a modern coinage, but an entirely new form of social identification that has next to no relation to homosexuality found throughout history and in other cultures.
Without even the slightest intention to disrespect anyone who identifies with this term, I feel compelled to state the politically incorrect obvious point that gay identity has created a third gender identity in modern society. Carrying the label gay, means assuming the social role of a psychological intersexual.

To attach the label gay to an historical figure like Alexander the Great or Hadrian, as is now common, is not only misleading because they also had wives, but because the label is inaccurate in describing their sexuality and gender identity, and because they themselves would not have been able in the least to identify with the label.

So too, there are innumerable men in our modern world who have the need and desire to connect with other men on both an emotional and a physical level, but who cannot be considered gay, either because they are also attracted to women, or because they are unable to relate to the unmasculine social role that is integral to gay identity.

Adrian van Liere

Thursday, April 18, 2013


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Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Recently On Grindr

Where do I start ...
The girlfriends in the pic?
1/2 point for removing the but seriously?
You couldn't find a digital pic of just you to post onGribdr

Wednesday, April 3, 2013


Um on my cum up like samsung
Um so outta this world 
galaxy 3 
so outta this world 
hubble telescope can't see me
I am not a human being 
marveen da marsheen
outta this world 
higher then Charles Sheen 
I am not a human being 
outta this wold saturn rings
they say the best things in life are free
but the best thing in life is me
and umma G-O-D
aint nobody got mo money den me
these MFs worship me
um a fucking star
bitch super nova
when I blast off
interplanetary life
Bow down bitches
um a god
kneel b4 Zod
super man couldn't fuck with me
leave that bitch in a coma
Call me big boss Bitch um bigger den Oprah
get dat geko green
Livin dat lewd life Roman Greko toga
fucks with cholos
don't fuks wit chocha
yes i am bannas
and bang like yellow bandans
Love dem mexicanos
tell dem bros to come ovah
got dat cheech an chong
we can roll it in a blunt
we can smoke it in a bong
all night long
gettin high and coming down
rolla costa
this is our fuckin thing
cosa nostra
poachin pussy
pussy pocha
an i eat i like a vultcha
then i let the homies hit when um finished
don't give a fuk if he's wit it
Um tipin extra if we kin choke ya


He sed daddy can i git da dick
I sed of course
Stay fucking these bitches
fuckin all fours 
Riding dat ass
ride it like a horse
get it 
ass horse 
yeah i know you get 
of course 
but don't let me get off course
stay puttin dat ass
golf course 
piggy love it when um fuckin that ass
especially when he snort 
he like dat freaky deeky 
N i know he sneaky 
thats why I lock up the pussy 
when um on tour 
What you think the cage in da basement 4
you thought i was talking rhymes when i sed 
i got bars
got a whole dungeon to beat that ass
tour chore 
make em see stars 
no telescope 
give me deep throat 
umma fuck it till sore 4 sure