Damian Lewd's Lewdlife: You B The Judge

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Monday, March 30, 2015

So i Creep? Yeah

You be The Judge
A Few Things To Consider b4 We Begin
1. The Full Conversation consisted of these 2 lines.
2. I have Never messaged this man before
3. In NYC if you're 10miles away it's likely You're Not even in NYC

So this Profile contains 3 lines

I take issue with a total of Yes all 3 lines

1. Don't be creepy

2. No... Twinks

3."If a person doesn't answer you after 3 times,

I think its a given not interested."

So Here's the Thing

1.Dont" be Creepy- I can completely understand this statement a lot of guys don't even say hello they have no pic and will send you their asshole.

In NYC if you're 10miles away it's likely You're Not even in NYC

2. I Have never messaged this guy b4

so what makes him think I am attracted him or expecting him to be attracted to me.

Simply commenting on the fact you come off like an asshole

3. "Who Do some of you people on here think you are"

This coming from the guy who thinks it's ok to passively ignore people

Nigga... Are you stoopid?

Please notice that there is a block button X Grindr does not

charge a fee to block people. And when you do you simply disappear from their grid

No fuss no Muss

So if like you say, you're trying to be "Nice"

You think to ignore someone is the compassionate route to go?

Really?

Which leads me back to #1 Don't be creepy.

Dude FYI, and this is the reason I hit him up in the first place

YOU ARE A CREEP!

My dude you are not THAT Fly. And if you were you still wouldn't be that Fab

4. Delusions Learn how to deal w/ rejection in a more adult way

LOL

Ok This one is 3 fold

a.Maybe your the dick for not taking the hint?

b.How can you make a judgement of me re: rejection when we've never spoken b4

You've never rejected me because you've never had the opportunity. I never expressed interest in you just as you never expressed disinterest in mine.

How bout Learn to not project your shit onto people

you don't know and haven't met

How bout If you've gonna sit at the Adult table...

Learn how to deal with adults like and adult

and the real adults won't have to call you on your bull shit and then you won't have to lash out.

#JustSayin #Apphole #DoucheBagsOfGrindr #DontBeAnAppHole

Friday, May 18, 2012

You be the Judge

Seriously?

My profile Clearly stated

NO PIC = NOT INTERESTED

PicLess Profiles Will Be Ignored

Now, on the internet, you never really know who you're talking to. Even when provided with a pic, you never can be sure that the person in the pic is the person that you are typing to, and are possibly heading out to meet, fuck or if you're a trusting soul, turn up at your door. Those of us who have been hooking up since the days of Netscape and AOL dial up, are far to familiar with this scenario. Who hasn't met up with the guy who looks nothing like his pic because it's 20 years old, or because he's using someone else's pic. But, its like 20 years later, everyone and their mom has a smartphone or at least a picture phone. If you're using one of these GPS Based Social Networking (SN) apps clearly you have either a camera equipped smartphone, iPad or iPodTouch. That being said in a day and age of the Digital Revolutions Digital Revolution (if that doesn't make sense you're just not old enough to understand ask someone over 30)... when everyone and their mom has at least a picture phone there is no excuse for you not to have a picture.

-"iPad1 & Older Touches Don't have cameras."

Then ask your mom, a friend, or a coworker to take a pic and e-mail it to you. Fuck I've had strangers in Times Square ask me to email them pics.

-"Well I don't have a personal Email and I don't feel comfortable giving out my work email"

Email is free and if you can get online to look for dick or what ever is your pleasure then you should at least equip yourself with the right tools. Really? I can't believe these are actual argument folks have made.. How many ways can I say, I'm not interested.

-"Yeah but some people are private or their work doesn't allow for them to post picture on the net (inter or mobile)."

True but then i really don't need to talk to you. I respect your right to enjoy your "Privacy"

The bottom line is right now most people have Smart Phones which means they have Face Time or Skype or some other Video Chat Service Available. Nobody's asking for head2Toe Nudes (banned by Apple as main photos), we are talking head shots people. If you can't produce a few reasonably clear pics of your self;

A. How do I know you are you?
B. What's my incentive to talk to you in the first place?

Especially, if you live 100miles away for me. Not that I don't appreciate having fans globally & I do. Yet there is only one italian couple that I met while in NY via a GPS based SN App that I keep in touch with over said SN. There are too man other options for keeping in touch with anonymous characters. Which ironically enough each have their own #app4That. I don't mind having a chat with someone around the globe. But the same rules apply, security doesn't get looser the more of a stranger and the farther you are away. I am from fucking NY.

The whole purpose of using GPS based Social Networking apps is to find guys locally. my profile will usually reflect that says Do you but as I respect your right to be a weirdo a on the DL a cheater closet queen or your simple "privacy' then...

C. You must respect my right to tell you to #FUCKOFF when you approach me with a proverbial bag over your head trying to chat me up when I have No Paper Baggers Tattooed across my forehead.

I'm done

Monday, May 7, 2012

Dumb Shit Faggots Say

Monday, April 30, 2012

#GetOffYourFuckingHighHorse

I'm not into Fems either and I also like my Men Masculine. However I'd never put that in a profile.
AGAIN Guys
1.STICK TO WHAT YOU WANT
2.WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TO TELL ANYONE WHAT HOW OR WHO TO BE?
I'm like the least PC MF out there but why queers seem to feel the need to cut others down unnecessarily is beyond me.
But, thanks for letting us know you are an asshole and insecure about your own masculinity ahead if time.